Just because u decide to forgive someone, doesn’t automatically mean that u trust them.

Let’s analyze this..

Forgiving someone is wanting to move on from the past. This has to do with the forgiver. It’s something they gotta do to personally grow from whatever happened.

Forgiving that person, however, does not mean that what they did was okay, it doesn’t cut em loose from what they did, it doesn’t grant them anything.

Forgiveness is about the forgiver.

Now in regards to TRUST…this all begins with the person who was at fault. Just becuz u are forgiven, does not mean u are now trusted. U have to re-earn trust.

Lemme reiterate that: If someone decides to forgive, it means they want to move on. But u are in no means “off the hook”. U are simply in the stage in which u

1. Accept being forgiven (insert feeling lucky here, cuz u should be)

2. Make up for what u did! In every way u can!

—-sidebar—-Absolutely no half-ass accountability here. U apologized, now its time to take responsibility & use some positive reinforcement.—-

Only til then will trust be slowly earned.

I mean, am I right or am I right?!

And can someone please show me how to enable comments?? Thanks in advance